A man has been left baffled after his girlfriend accused him of being unfaithful to her because of one comment that he made – and he doesn’t know how to convince her
Being falsely accused of cheating can be devastating.
Infidelity is a leading cause of failed relationships, as it’s very difficult to forgive your partner after finding out they’ve been cheating on you. But what if you get accused of having an affair when you’re completely innocent? The lack of trust alone can be enough to break down a relationship, even if no wrongdoing actually happened.
That’s the situation one man is facing after his girlfriend accused him of cheating on her, with some bizarre evidence to back up her claim. She told him he must be sleeping with someone else for one reason – because he has a celebrity crush.
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In a post on Reddit, the man explained his girlfriend had asked him to name a celebrity that he finds attractive, and he said Sophie Turner. This answer did not satisfy his partner, though, as she said the actress “looks similar” to another woman the man knew several years ago.
He had previously been accused of cheating with this woman when she “had it out for” him and made up lies to tell his girlfriend. These issues were firmly behind the couple, but his celebrity crush brought them back up again – and his girlfriend is now once again convinced he did, in fact, cheat on her.
He wrote: “(My girlfriend said) because they look similar, that proves I cheated on her. Mind you, this is YEARS apart from that incident, and somehow that was her immediate reaction. When I started to tell her that was absolutely absurd, she then asked me why I was getting defensive and (said) that me being defensive over it further proved it. Of course I’m getting defensive. I’m getting accused of cheating because a celebrity that I find attractive looks similar to that girl.
“She eventually calmed down but refused to see this was a complete overreaction and told me she hoped I learned from the conversation we had. What did I learn? I didn’t even do anything. All that I learned was not to answer a question or bring anything up like that because it was clearly a trap.”
Commenters on the post urged the man to rethink his relationship, as it didn’t seem like a healthy dynamic for either of them to constantly argue and seemingly have little trust. They described his relationship as “exhausting” and told him to “stop tolerating” his partner treating him poorly.
One person said: “My husband and I both decided that we like certain celebrities and decided we have a ‘hall pass’ with them jokingly. We both laughed and agreed because nobody deals with this in life. Normal people don’t react like this. She sounds like she will do this with anyone. Get out of there!”
Another added: “Cut the loss, this isn’t your problem to deal with. Don’t justify her behavior at all, just see it how it is and move on.” While a third wrote: “She sounds exhausting.”
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