Reddit user Duck_Diggler_ asked the sex workers of the community, “What’s your most awkward encounter (you’ve had) with someone?”
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They revealed what it’s really like to be a sex worker — stories and secrets that will likely change how you see the job entirely.
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So, here are some secrets and stories from sex workers that’ll most likely change your perception on the profession:
Note: Some submissions include subjects of sexual abuse. Please proceed with caution.
1. “I had a guy lay me out on the table, take my shoes off, get out a set of dental picks and mirrors and an electric toothbrush, and do a ‘dental exam’ on my feet. It lasted for an hour. He checked for ‘cavities’, ‘polishing’, and ‘flossing.’ I was supposed to play the whole thing straight as if it were really my teeth he was examining. Never did his penis come out of his pants. It was actually a totally great time, if a bit bizarre to start.”
2. “I used to do cam shows in college. Not regularly, just here and there when I wanted a little extra money (usually to buy Magic: The Gathering cards). One guy paid for a private show and asked me to take my laptop to the bathroom and completely submerge myself in water for as long as I could. I was under for maybe 45 seconds, and when I came up, he had left the room. I still wonder what he got out of that.”
3. “I used to work as a stripper. One night, a guy in the VIP section bought a few dances and then asked me to step on his penis in my seven-inch stripper heels. At first, I was being careful, but then, after he assured me that there was no way I could hurt him, I went to town. I even threw in a few combos where I’d step on his penis and do a twirl. It was actually pretty fun. Afterwards, he bought my thong for $50. It was a really fun night.”
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4. “My wife is a cam girl. Some dude wanted her to do her makeup just like another girl (of whom he provided a picture) and for me to slam a pie into her face. It was probably the most fun I’ve ever had making $50.”
5. “I’m a former cam girl, and there were a lot of men who wanted to feel humiliated. I would laugh at them, tell them how small their penis was — some men even wanted me to blackmail them. One would give me his personal information, like his address, phone number, and wife’s name, and I would make him buy me things.”
6. “A client of mine likes to bring me cockroaches in a jar. He lies down on the floor (during dates that take place in a hotel) and has me step all over his face with my feet covered in lotion. Then he has me hold the cockroaches over his face and play with them in various ways while he masturbates.”
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7. “I’m a cam girl, indie porn star, fetish seller, and Findomme. I have a findom client who I make treat his wife well. I have picked out every gift she’s gotten, planned her vacations, sent her on spa trips, sent her flowers regularly, and gotten her wine every week for the past two years. She has no idea.”
8. “Quite a few years ago, I worked as a sex worker in a New York City dungeon. There was an older man who requested dental work be done on him. He explained that he wanted his teeth to be loosened. He gave the excuse that his dental insurance wouldn’t cover a procedure he wanted because his teeth were ‘too good.’ He needed the help of a sex worker to fix this problem — I turned down the session. I eventually came to learn he was fairly well-known in the community and had gone around to all the dungeons in search of this. I never determined if he was attempting to really get his teeth messed with, or if he just wanted to live out this fantasy. Either way, I wasn’t going to be playing in his mouth.”
9. “I had a customer who would always request to buy used condoms from me after I had sex with another dude. He’d pay around $500 for each one for me to mail them to him. I asked him once what he did with them, and he said he would eat the cum. I found it hilarious, but I also wanted to puke at the idea of him eating another man’s old cum.”
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10. “I was a stripper in the early 2000s. There was a guy who would come into the club with this little white Bichon-type dog strapped to his chest in a baby carrier facing out, and he would buy dances with the dog on him. Another time, I was doing my signature move during a lap dance (nipple-twisting the customer in the best way), and I realized my aim was off. I was toying with a huge mole. My favorite customer was a nice older widower. He would pay all the ‘curvy’ girls to cuddle with him in the private booth. It was nothing sexy — just really intimate positions where he was being held. He was a sweet guy — he even paid full price ($30 a song).”
11. “I worked in a brothel for almost a year. A guy came in and ‘selected me’ (he was weirdly awkward and shy, as other girls said they had seen him before), and we went up to a room. We had a very strict policy about health checks, so I asked him to take his pants down. He hesitated, and I thought, ‘Oh, boy, he’s got something.’ I asked him again, and he finally, slowly started to take his pants off. He mumbled, ‘I may have one pimple.’ I told him okay, but I’d have to see it anyway. It was the WORST case of warts I have ever seen, in real life or a health book. I couldn’t even see his skin. I almost threw up, but I kept it professional and said, ‘I’m sorry, I can’t service you today. Have you seen a doctor?’ He mumbled and said, ‘Yes, he said it was fine.’ Eye roll.”
“I said, ‘Sir, you have genital warts. No legal brothel will accept you. You can get a full refund downstairs.’ I opened the door and waited for him to walk out into the hallway. He stood there for the longest time before pulling his pants up — it was agonizingly awkward. He was going red.
I kept it friendly and walked down the stairs after him (THIS IS WHERE IT GETS WORSE). I went to the reception with him and had to stay by his side as the receptionist tried to refund him, but the machine was broken. I had to explain it was a failed health check, and he was even more embarrassed. I was dying inside. Luckily, the receptionist saw my discomfort, and she told me to go back to the backroom.
I watched on the camera as his card was declined (or vice versa). It was a full 10 minutes before he left. It’s not the worst experience, but definitely very cringey (we then wiped down everything he touched).”
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12. “I used to be a cam girl, and the people I would meet were so wild. One time, I had a 75-year-old guy who just wanted me to watch him vacuum naked. He had a beer in his hand the whole time. He put his camera in the corner, and every five to 10 minutes, he would stop vacuuming and come two inches from his camera. He’d say, ‘You still watchin’?!’ in a super Southern voice. I’d laugh and say, ‘Yep,’ and he would continue on. One time, I watched him vacuum for two hours before I finally became so bored that I ended his private chat. It was some bomb-ass money, though — that shit will drive you nuts.”
13. “I used to do a lot of phone sex. One morning, I was awoken around 6 a.m. by a phone call from one of my regular’s lawyers. They asked that I sign a contract obligating me to effectively be my regular’s emotional support animal, internet boyfriend, and therapist for a certain number of hours a week. No sexy talk, mind you. It was emotional reassurance and anxiety-soothing stuff.”
14. “A client pays me to teach him how to blow his nose properly, making sure to say key phrases like ‘blow it clear.’ Another client had a fantasy scenario where I received an expensive vibrator in the mail, but when I opened it, I discovered a tiny man that was stuck in it. He said, ‘What you don’t know is that man was a factory worker who got stuck in the vibrator making it!’ I was confused about where he wanted me to go with this, but he suggested I should try using the vibrator with the man attached. Nope. The client replied, ‘I can’t cum unless you destroy it.’”
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15. “I was a dancer in college, located in the city where my uncle was a cop. He and his buddies came in one night for a bachelor party. We saw each other at the same time, and all I could say was, ‘Please don’t tell my daddy you saw me in here!’ He replied, ‘Don’t tell your daddy you saw me in here, either!’ I was able to sit out the entire time they were there (and hung out with them in an evening gown, lol) and had my friends dance for them…what a night!”
16. “I was working in a nice suburb in D.C. — the guy came to my hotel room, and he looked and seemed ‘normal’ at first. Then he told me that he was a germaphobe and asked me if it was okay if he wore a special suit that he had made. He had a latex suit with a hole cut out, and he had a bottle of rubber cement to attach the suit to the condom, essentially making a body condom.”
17. “He was super financially manipulative (which is something I didn’t realize was a thing until this job). Our ‘relationship’ (I use that term lightly) started off in a whirlwind. He tipped me probably $250 the first night he came into my cam room, then disappeared for a couple of days. He came back to say he had been in the hospital with COVID and that he was on a ventilator. I called him out for lying and said I would block him. He ended up tipping me $500, so I decided not to block him. After that, he was around daily but started getting really demanding. He was tipping me $150 a night on average, including one night where he tipped me $1,000 (but when he’d tip like that, he’d demand one-on-one time and for me to get off cam).”
“Fast forward — one day, I got a text from his number saying, ‘Hey, this is (X’s) mom. He is in a psych ward right now, and he wanted me to text you on his behalf.’ My response was, ‘So, he is in the hospital, and the first thing he thinks to ask his mom is to text a random cam girl? Yeah, sure…’
He ended up admitting to lying, and then I fully blocked him. He still makes new accounts every now and then to tip me. I’ll take the money, but god damn, he was exhausting. So many lies, so much manipulation. Part of me thinks he thought we were dating, but I’d constantly remind him I’m just a fantasy cam girl who wasn’t available to date.”
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18. “I’m a fairly new online adult content creator. One of my neighbors found out and has not been shy about making me aware that she knows. The other night, I was up late in my media room (which is at the front of my house), and I started receiving notifications that someone was in my driveway. I ignored it at first, thinking maybe it was another one of my neighbors coming home late from work, but the notifications kept coming. I checked the camera, and the neighbor in question was creeping around in front of my house. I had my blinds drawn, and the glow from the TV attracted her, with her hoping to see me naked/creating content.”
“She literally hung around the front of my house like a zombie from Resident Evil for 10 minutes before I called her out for being creepy.
I will admit, it’s my own fault for allowing myself to be caught by her on a few occasions in full view, naked in my kitchen/dining room (she could see over my back/side fence), and also wearing a g-string in my back yard hanging up the laundry. However, this still got on my nerves.”
19. “I met a very rich businessman from Japan. My friend introduced us, and I then introduced him to another friend. So he was seeing all of us. It got weird because I found out he paid one friend more. I confronted him about it, and he asked if I really thought ‘I was worth that much.’ That was awkward, and I haven’t done sex work ever since. I miss making thousands in a day, though.”
“He’d also comment on my age and weight whenever I saw him, which made things bad for sure. I’d say, ‘A lady never reveals her age,’ but then he’d show me these common workouts in Japan and feed me healthy meals.
He was honestly a lot of fun, and I do miss him, but I’m pretty sure 30 would be ‘pushing it’ for his taste.”
20. “I was paid to use people as human furniture. Just sit on them and use them as inanimate objects. They wanted to be squished down and smothered — some guys wanted me to sit on their faces (panties on, no sex). I’m considered an ‘Amazon’ at 5’11” and 230 pounds, so it’s a ‘fetish’ to have me ‘squish people.’ I’ve also stepped on people. I have never slept with clients (definitely not against those who do, but my husband and I have an agreement). I only do fetish work.”
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21. “One guy liked to clean my dirty running shoes. We would meet at the train, and he’d clean my shoes off with a fresh towel and shoe cleaner. He then slipped $100 into my sock and left.”
22. “I had a girlfriend who would sit on balloons on a cam site. She also smashed cake with her feet or would sit on the cake. She was pretty good at it and made good money. There were mostly repeat customers.”
23. “A guy sent me $50 on Venmo to add him on Snapchat and said he would pay me daily to talk to him. I agreed because it’s money in my pocket, and I’d be silly to turn that down. Well, I added him on Snapchat, and I saw he had already sent me a video. I opened it up to find a minute-long video of him heavily fucking his pillows and sheets. The video was taken from behind, as it seemed he propped his phone up. So all I saw was his hairy ass and asshole in incredible detail on my phone screen. It was not cleaned very well.”
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24. “I was a very active cam girl. I had my own state blocked out as I lived in a small town at the time. I went to IHOP with a friend, her boyfriend, and his friend. I was wearing this pair of rainbow-framed eyeglasses that I typically would only wear while camming. During our time there, this guy would not stop staring at me to a borderline creepy extent. After two hours of this, I finally asked him why he was staring at me like that. He asked me if I was familiar with the site name I cammed on, and my whole body froze. He caught on and immediately shouted, ‘OH MY GOD, IT IS YOU!’ Turns out he was from out of state and was a frequenter in my cam rooms. I made his life, and he made all of IHOP stare at me, trying to figure out why this poor man was ‘fangirling’ in the middle of the restaurant.”
25. And finally, “I once had a man lie down in the shower naked. I was then forced to get naked, get in there, stand up, and pee all over him while he held his mouth open, trying his best to catch it. I did it a few times, but the last time, he begged me to have a bowel movement on his chest. I just could not do that — not even for $300. He was so offended by the fact that I wouldn’t do it, he never called me back…”
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Note: Some submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.
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