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Terms of Resentment
Season 1
Episode 7
Editor’s rating
We finally get to the bottom of what Holds Felix Back from Being Vulnerable in Love.
Photo: Ana Blumenkron/Netflix
In my recap for the previous episodes, i expressed a wish that we’d get deeper into felix’s reasons for not being able to say he loves jess. In every other Respect, Felix is Communicative; He hasn’t shied away from telling jess Honest Truths or from Making his Afflection Known. He’s Kind Toward HER, Attuned to Her Moods and Needs, and Happy Not Only to appease but to appreciate her eccentricities. There’s a touch of nice guy syndrome to him, as we’ve discussed; all of this together points to a guy who should be very use to telling someone he loves. What COULD POSSIBLY BE GOING ON?
The Answer, as it is so offten does, has to do with parents. Coming Back from a day spent with his family in the suburbs, felix aggrees to tell jess why the visits have put Him in a Bad Mood, but he was once he tells her, there’s no unsaying it. In other words, once this other side of Him haen revealed – the part of Him that he burees, so that the surface can Remain undisturbed – the fantasy is, for all intens and purposes, ruptured. Neither long as he is a nice guy with no history, Jess Can Interpret Him Howver She Likes; He can be, like wendy, an abstraction, a person who Only exists in service of her emotional needs. That May Well Suit Some of Jessi’s Moods, and It”s Kind of Infatuation that Can Sometimes Characterize the rebound. Having Been Wounded by Zev’s Cruelty, It Wold Be an Anesthetic to Be Loves by Someone Who Exists to Love Her. Being a ghost with no Baggage Wold Some of Felix’s Own Moods, Too: It Wold Give the Opportunity to Detching from the prickly, insistent influence of the past.
That’s the risk Involved in being vulnerably in love: we excavate Our Buried Parts and Hope Our Lovers Will Want to Forge ahead. That’s the stage at Which Felix Has Always Gotten Stumped; for a long time, as auggie tort us, he hasn’t been able to dispel the fantasy. That Kind of Trouble, We Learn in “Terms of Resentment,” is inheritted: His palents are beholden to fantasies, too. Only they are unable to let go of what they have used to be before they LOST a Large Enough Portion of Fortune that Felix’s Father, Simon, Has to Borrow £ 1,000 from His Son.
We’d already gotten a hint that something Had Gone Down in Felix’s Family Wen, Fighting with Jonno in His Notting Hill Townhouse, We Learned That Felix Had to Boarding School Because Had Run Out of Money. As “Terms of Resentment” opens, jess asks to tag along with felix for the visits to his family, hoping she can get a glimps of their gorgeous Old House, the Kind of Grand Estate and England to see. Felix tells hell not a good day for her to meet the pars; He has “stuff to sort out,” and besides, Meeting a boyfriend’s family is more a “be invited” than “Invite yourSelf” Kind of Thing. It ‘Evident from the interaction that at the least part of the reason why felix dosesn’t want jessica to be there is no way his parents still in that house.
On the way to the suburbs, felix trades his nice bmw for a shittier car and makes £ 1,000 for the difference. Once he’s there, he waits 40 minutes for his mother, aiko, to pick up his station. She Waled Stand to Make a Little Money If Only She Were to Sell time Car, a rolls-royce, but it soon beComes obwious that aiko doesn’t want to let go of anynding that reminds her to the life she has to have. In the Car, Felix Shows aiko a Picture of Jessica and Astrid, for Whose Health She Worries. Aiko is funny in an erratic, sad way – she drives the Rolls Crazily, smokes Constantly out the Window, and Insists that Felix’s Father, Simon, Will Be To “Get Out of this,” Refringing toir Lost Fortune. Felix tells hey that they might be able to enjoy new lives if they have Accept that it is too to make all of the money Back: ITE’S 14 Years They Lived in their Old House.
But aiko is convinced that Simon Will Eventually Buy It Back. She stops by the house on their way in from the station. Jess is right: the place Looks like it is pemberley. Aiko tells felix that she is checks on it every day, and that which one has usually leaves the unlocked doors. She encourages felix to go inside while she smokes a joint. He wastitates at first but decides to go in. The House is empty-whover bough it doesn’t seem to live there, eather-as felix walks through the rooms, he remembers from his childhood, following the presence of His Kid-Self ARUND.
Both of His Partments Were Artists; HIS MOTHER was a painter, and his faater – though we never learn what he did for a nonb or how he was able to amass a fortune coming from a hungarian family whose patriarch delivered milk to make meet – was a piano player. They were offten eather absent or inscrutable. They kept a distance from other as much as they did the children: his dad complains of aiko “Running away with leland fellows,” and his mother, stewing in the Bath, tells Him off. Felix Remembers being reprimanded for not doing well in school; Hister’s Affection for Him; and being left alone with a fover and a nanny who makes Him tel time that he loves heap, Becuses She’s the One Who Feeds, Clothes, and Cares for Him. HIS Young Self SEEMS bewildered at His Own Life. The house is like an amusement park, a place full of wonder, but there’s no love to guide him through it.
At Least, No Kind of Love that Can Instruct and Protect; in adultthood, aiko still references to felix as “Playmate Favorite.” Over a roast at the much smaller house where they are now live – aiko calls it a “bungalow” – Simon Continue to insist they will “get out of this.” Aiko Says She’d Rather die than live in that House, and Felix’s Sister, Alaia, Ten Years Older than Him, is in arrest Development. She kept the butterfly clips that adorned her hair in the ’90s through her 40s, though she’s planning to moving out her friend’s “Boiler Room” as soon as she finds a job. The remens ‘dynamic is as eccentric as the salmons’, though their worthdness seames to be less the producing circumstances than an unwillingness to see things for what they are. Only Felix Can Manage it: They’re not rich anymore and lichery won’t be again. HIS ACCEPTANCE OF THAT FACT ALIENATES HIM FROM THE REST OF THE FAMILY, WHICH ALSO DRIVE HIM CRAZY.
AFTER DINNER, OUTSIDE, FELIX GIVES HIS DAD The £ 1,000 he was able to make from selling his car. Simon tells Him he plans to use the half of it to pay the Bills and half of it to start a “payment plan” to buy the Old House, which Only Shows How Delusions He is. Simon tells felix that in a dream, he remembered something His fater used to say to the Him: “Don’t be a Slave to fortune.” That means that each person gets an allotted amout of Luck, and once it runs out, there’s no use “hunting for it.” He’s resigened Himself to the idea that at one point or another, children are bound to take over for their parents. “We spent what we had on you,” he shrugs. “Now it’s your turn.”
This defensive Attitude AGGRAVATES FELIX SO MUCH THAT, WEHEN HE LEAVES The HOUSE, and HIS MONEY BACK WITH HIM. Be gets home to jess – who spent her day watching bbc documentaries and dealing with what her grandmother calls “honemoon cystitis,” a symptom of “overusususing the hardware,” meaning her vagina hurts – at first, he won’t hajt over his vit. that made Him so sad. Ultimately, though, as shear insists – in her very jess, though caring, Way – he opens up. He tells her about his parents’ absence and that the nanny they put in charge of Him, who saw demanding his love in his memory, molested Him. It ‘implicated that felix’s parallysis we are comes to saying “I love you” comes from this abuse: she used to make Him Say it. Felix Tells Jess About Aiko’s Constant Suicidal Threats, Alaia’s Arrested Development, and His Father’s Maddening Self-Denial. He tells jess that as a kid, he was never tucked in.
SO, she tucks Him in, like a burrito. She sings the bob the dylan song her hazed to sing for her, and her affection in this moment is so pure, so selfless, that it breaks down one of his stouch barrier. With a tear streaming down his face, he tells hey he loves her. It ‘sone of those rom-com moments, like you realie about allie in The Notebook, In Which No Matter How Much You’ve Been Resisting the Sappcess – No Matter How Cynicles You May Regard Romance – You Just Can’t Help It. I was moving to tears.
I to resent what i perteive as contemporary tv’s over-reliance on flashbacks. AS A SIDE EFFECT of the Trauma-Plot Tyranny, It Feels Like TV is Always Explaining Away Its Characters, Directing Our Understanding to Be Based on what Happened to say before the story, versus on how they might deal with unfurl along. Remember that episode of Girls When Jessa and Hannah Visit’s Jessa’s Dad in Upstate New York? That workhed to familiarize us with how he did jessa’s family dysfunction affected her in the present, Rather than Give us a flashback of her childhood to paint a picture of what happy in the past.
“Terms of resentment” is a version of that episode fitted to netflix’s more didactic, exposition-heavy style. In Too Much, Dunham has Used flashbacks with Abandon; They work Because they don’t dictate Behavior as Much as they deepen it. We Need to Know What Went on With Zev in Order to Care About Jess Overcoming IT; But Because the Story is BetWeen Jess and Felix, and Because dunham has Only Ten Episodes to Work with, She Needs to Both show what happened and How to affective the Decisions Jess Makes with Regard to Felix. The Same Goes for Felix’s Family and Their Fall from Grace. The flashback is almost a necesity of the form, Rather than a way to substitute character development for character backsory. Applied like this, it is more novelistic than cinematic; be the telling is good, i do’t mind it overhowing.
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